Tuesday, May 27, 2008
Slip and slide your way to a better body!
Sorry, no pictures:)
Monday, May 26, 2008
Ah, Man!
Anybody have a recommendation for a new camera?
Friday, May 23, 2008
Pictures for previous post
And by the way, thank you so much for all the well wishes and thoughts that you shared with us about baby Malu. We are very fortunate to have friends and family like you!
Sunday, May 18, 2008
Unwelcome!
Yesterday we had a very pleasant visit with our friends the Mauldin's. We went out to eat at a little Chinese restaurant. As we were driving home we passed a park near our house. Guess what I saw, a little shirtless boy riding a bike with one missing pom-pom on its handle bar. I was so mad. I hate the thought that he thinks he can help himself to whatever is in our backyard. We pulled over to reclaim our bike and then we drove to his house to talk to his mom. Useless. When I think of the look in her eyes, the phrase deer in the headlights come to mind. Or maybe, the lights are on, but no one is home. I told her what had happened. She called him a little thief and told me that she would let him know that what he did was wrong.
Today, as we were walking home from church, we see this same little boy in his swim suit and slightly dripping. Kai asked him if he had been swimming in our pool. He of course said no. I proceeded to tell hem that it was absolutely not okay for him to swim at our house when we are not home. We checked our pool when we got home and sure enough the evidence of his pool visit was everywhere. The ladder, which was left out of the pool near our back door was now in the pool by our laundry room door. There was a tee ball base in the pool as well as several pieces of chalk. I was so mad. Not only did he litter our pool with junk, but he could have been hurt.
So what do we do? Obviously if he asked his mom about swimming at our house she didn't think it was important enough to check if it was okay, or if it would be done under adult supervision. The kid is 5. What parent gives her five year old that kind of freedom? So my question is: How do you stop a child from coming to your house? Especially when you are not home? Especially when his parents don't help?
Enough of that! We had an exciting week. First of all, I got the new Stephenie Meyer Book, The Host. It took me awhile to get into it, but I ended up loving it. I truly have an addiction. I seem to cease all other functions when I read. I have never used any illicit drugs or formed unhealthy dependencies, but I wonder if this is what it would be like. When I get a book, all I want to do is read. I don't want to do chores, make meals, keep my kids on the routine that I am usually so strict about. When I am forced to do other things, you know the important things, like take care of my kids, all I can think about is holding that book in my hands and filing my head with the words that turn into a movie inside my brain. All too often I stay up late into the night reading so that I can be undisturbed and also so that I can finish the book and be free from its overwhelming powers. It took me three days to read.
Saturday, May 10, 2008
Happy Mother's Day!
Top 5 Favorite Memories with my Mom
1. Her singing to me when I as little every night before I went to bed and listening to her made
up stories about Mark and Tu and Bubble land.
2. Sitting next to her on the couch on the patio, one morning, listening to the rain before school.
3. Watching her try to wax my legs in Hawaii - it was so painful.
4. Getting pedicures with her at the little shop in La Habra.
5. Watching her read stories to my kids at night when we go to her house in California.
I love you mom, Happy Mother's Day.
Thursday, May 8, 2008
28 Days
I have had lots of other things that I want to blog about but it just seems like I need to finish this out. Today was Malu's Funeral. I wish I could have taken a picture of her lying in her tiny little casket because I have never seen her look so beautiful. Her suffering was over and she was peaceful at last. She was truly, truly a thing of beauty.
This is what was written in Malulani's program. Her name by the way means under the protection of heaven:
"Where there is great love, there are always miracles."
Born with Trisomy 18, Malu was not expected to live very long here on earth. She was able to stay 28 days, touching the lives of many people. Her life was filled with love and tenderness. Her parents were grateful for her time with them."
Candy said, "Now I know that miracles do come true because I got to hold my daughter."
At the graveside service, we released 28 pink, purple, and white balloons to celebrate the 28 days that Malu was with us.
Malu has a great mommy and daddy and a family that will love her forever.
Saturday, May 3, 2008
Aloha 'Oe
Tuesday, April 29, 2008
Going Private & Blogging Safety
Our friends and family (even from way back when) may continue to look at our blog anytime. I love keeping in touch this way. Please send me your email address so that I may invite you to view my blog.
amykaidavis12@yahoo.com
My friend also posted these safety tips on her blog. They were very enlightening to me and I thought I'd share. I don't know how to do one of those cool link things that have a hot spot, so I had to do the old fashioned cut and paste. I hope she doesn't mind. I thought they were very important tips.
"My Many Coloured Days" says:
"Blogging Safety Tips
I’ve had a lot of thoughts lately about blogging and have decided to compile them and provide a bit of a safety tip list that I wanted to share with you. Unfortunately a lot of you are breaking some of these tips, and haphazardly putting yourselves and your family at potential risk. I am not pointing any fingers here, I utterly enjoy reading all of your blogs, however I just want you to all be safe. Granted I know that if someone is serious about stalking you they have a million ways at their fingertips to do so, but let’s not give them another one.A friend of mine recently had some issues with certain pictures of her daughters being repeatedly viewed by numerous strangers. I followed her suggestion to use a different tracker (the annoying one some of you complained about) for about a week to see exactly who was viewing what. I was surprised and disgusted that two of my posts in particular were being viewed quite often and the link was from a sex site that I would need a password to access. I quickly deleted the posts and watched as my traffic thankfully decreased. So it was with these thoughts and this experience that I post my personal list of blogging safety tips. Note that I would love you to add to these, as this list is by no means comprehensive.*Keep your calendar at home. Don’t announce to the internet netherworld that you hit the gym every day at 6am, take your kids to the nearby park every day at 2pm, or that you will be leaving town and going on vacation to Disney on April 21st to the 28th. (I’m not by the way, but I sort of wish I were!) Not only will somebody who is not your friend know where you are, but they will know where you aren’t… that your home is empty.*Personal information is personal. At your discretion, don’t post personal information. Names (especially last names), addresses, phone numbers, school’s names, employment information, last names of friends or relatives (in your posts or links), ages are iffy, and birthdates are a must not. (I know, I’ve broken a lot of these “tips” too!)*Watch your pictures. Never post provocative pictures. Remember that what is cute, adorable or funny to you may be provocative for a pedophile. It only takes one of them to view it and then pass it on to others. Naked baby photos, bath time fun photos, even children in dress-up costumes…if you have pictures like this that you want to share with friends and family, you may have to go back to the old fashioned email or snail mail, or start a private family blog… online is permanent and anyone on the internet can save a picture or post to their computer or even print it out. Look over your pictures before you post them to make sure that none of the personal information you are making sure not to write is in the background or foreground of your pictures. Those first day of school pictures in front of the school give a lot of information you may not want passed out to anyone. This past winter my two eldest went around and shoveled the walks of everyone on our cul-de-sac of their very own accord. I was thrilled and as a proud mama took lots of pics to post for you… but then I realized that you would easily see where I live, that the numbers on the houses were easy to read and well, those of you who I want to know where I live do or can, but those I don’t, won’t. One of the pictures that was being accessed and viewed by a sex site was of my three year old son wearing a leotard and being a little ballerina. So sad, but it is up to us to use more discretion than necessary if we want to keep our blogs public.*Be nice and only mostly honest. Most of you are, but do remember that while you do have freedom of speech, some people are crazy and may take offence and then get defensive and then you may have a whole other problem on your hands. Read this to get what I’m talking about. You don’t want to be slandering your mother-in-law online… because, really, what do you ever have to complain about :) I also worry about employers, or potential employers. Mr. Man mentioned that several employers are going on facebook and all those other modern online conveniences and reading everything a potential employee has ever written. So be careful. Writing that you called in sick to work to spend a day having fun may not be the best thing for your future employer to read. This one is a tricky one and I don’t have much to say on it, but I think it’s important to consider the person you are portraying and not just what you are putting out there, but whom. Also, something I've learned is to be careful what your titles are... those are what people will search to. I'm not too worried about those coming who googled, "chore charts", but I am wary of the "skinny dipping" ones! Here’s another link to some helpful tips.I went over some of these tips with a friend of mine this morning and then went on to tell her everything I thought she should take off her blog in order to be safe. I didn’t want to offend, but in the end she was more than grateful and almost barged into my house to do it immediately! She suggested we set up a sort of watchdog system… as friends we should help each other out and let each other know when we think they’ve violated the safety tips or just given too much information. I would definitely appreciate such comments. The safety kid in me notices these things so easily now. I’m not trying to scare you, just alert you and remind you. Happy, safe blogging"
Saturday, April 26, 2008
Perfection
Wednesday, April 23, 2008
We love family!
We have so much fun when my folks come to visit (take two!). We really don't get to see them all that often and my girls just adore them. We had a chocolate pot party the night before they left and it was quite the event. Lots of mess. Lots of fun. Lots of great memories.
Monday, April 21, 2008
California Dreamin'
Sunday, April 20, 2008
New Things
Cambria’s First Talk April 20, 2008
Having a Prophet to lead our church is very important. The scriptures tell us in Amos 3:7
“ Surely the Lord God will do nothing,
but he revealeth his secret unto his servants
the prophets.”
Some of you have you heard the song Follow the Prophet. Part of it says, “Follow the prophet, he knows the way.”
The prophet knows the way because Heavenly Father speaks to him. Heavenly Father tells the prophet what we need to do to be happy. He tells the prophet what we need to do to be safe. He tells the prophet what we need to do to return to live with Him again someday in heaven.
It is really important to do the things that the prophet commands because the prophet is speaking for Heavenly Father.
There is a poem in The Friend called, “I Will Follow the Prophet.” It says:
“When my dad says, “lets go and play,” we run down to the park.
When my mom says, “It’s time for bed,” I lie down in the dark.
When the music says, “you need to dance,” I move my hands and feet.
When my tummy says, “I need a snack,” I get something to eat.
When the prophet says, “we all must pray,” I humbly bow my head.
His voice is one that speaks for God, so I’ll do as he’s said.”
President Monson is our new prophet. I know Heavenly Father chose him to be His new servant. I know that it is important to follow what he says. Our prophet will always help us choose the right.
In the name of Jesus Christ, Amen
Wednesday, April 16, 2008
Big Day
Tuesday, April 15, 2008
Over Due
She is a miracle.
Here she is 10 days later, still breathing (with help), still living and still letting her mommy and Daddy love her. I haven't ever lost a child, but I did lose my father and I am so thankful to have the knowledge that families can be together forever and that our relations with each other don't end in death. I am thankful to know of a Heavenly Father who loves us. I am thankful to know that heaven isn't just a fancy place that people talk about in stories but an actual place. I am thankful to know that we can return to heaven to live with our loved ones who have gone before us. Knowing this doesn't completely lessen the grief that comes with the passing of a loved one, but rather it gives hope that the separation is only temporary. I can't imagine coping with grief without this knowledge.
We had a baby shower for Malu on Saturday. Since she wasn't expected to be with us, her parents didn't really have any supplies, plus it gave us a chance to celebrate Malu and the blessing that she is to all of us.
In other news, this is a picture of Bubba and cousin Devin. Devin is a month younger, but he is just as big. Bubba kept trying to take Devin's toys, but Dev was a good sport. ( I removed the picture of the below story for safety reasons)
No, this is not a little Laie boy running around the North Shore, this is my daughter Cambria! It was really hot on Saturday and the pool was irresistable. We didn't come prepared however so Cambria borrowed some boy shorts. We giggled as we put them on in the bathroom and as we walked out of the door Cambria said, "oh, I hope I don't look ridiculous!"
Thursday, April 10, 2008
Little Things
Cambria: Mom, what if we were fish and the fisherman's hook caught us right here (points to tongue)?
Me: Then I guess they would catch us and eat us up for dinner.
Kiera: Guys, that can't ever happen because we are human!
This is another precious moment to me. I have a picture of me feeding my little brother just like this. Well, almost like this. I had clothes on. It was spaghetti night though and I didn't want Kiera to ruin here clothes.
I also updated sayitsweetly.blogspot.com. It has some cute samples with prices on it. Take a look if you'd like. I'm sure I will eventually post it on this blog too.
Sunday, April 6, 2008
The Final Fiesta
As for the cakes the girls each picked out the design the wanted from our cake book and then we frosted them together. I don't know if you can tell because my camera is so crappy, but Kiera's, the pink one, has a tiara on it.
Here's to you Squiby. Best Pet Ever!
Thursday, April 3, 2008
Easter, B-days and Disneyland!
Easter time is usually synonymous with birthday time for us. So along with dying eggs and the more spiritual side of Easter , we also plan party, after party, after party. The Saturday before Easter Kai's mom and Dad planned a big Easter/birthday extravaganza. We colored eggs had an Easter egg hunt, had birthday cake and opened presents. The kids had a great time. We also had a birthday party while we were in Cali and we will be having our last one tomorrow. Crazy, I know. It drives Kai nuts. Oh, below are some pictures that Cambria and Kiera made.
The hats that my girls are wearing demonstrate yet another difference between my girls. Cambria wanted the pretty princess ears and Kiera wanted the Goofy hat.
Maybe this is why Kiera wanted the goofy hat- curse my dang foggy camera.




