Some of you have asked me about my final
decision about Kindergarten. Did I decide on full day or half day or home school. ? Well, let me just tell you that It took me all summer to decide. Many a night was spent tossing and turning and many days full of stress and turmoil as I pondered this
dilemma. I have even endured ridicule from
friends. (I still love them though!)
I know that children are
resilient. I know that they can take most
situations and make some kind of adjustment to them. I knew that whatever decision I made, C
ambria would be
alright. So I dug deep and tried to understand the root of my
dilemma and why this whole situation had
become a
dilemma for me.
I discovered that I have some very strong opinions about several matters that I will keep to myself because
I truly don't want anyone to take my opinion personally and be offended. I have, however concluded what decision will be best for me and my daughter and my family and finally feel at peace. (I know some of you are just now realizing how crazy I am!)
My decision is this. I will allow
Cambria to stay for half day kindergarten. The principal (my mother-in-law) has let me know that there is no law preventing me from doing this and that
Cambria will simply have to take a proficiency test to get into 1st grade. She says that the two main reasons the school district has gone to all day is because of daycare related issues and English as a second language issues. Neither of these apply to me. I enjoy being involved in my child's life and will be happy to continue her education at home after her regular school day ends.
We are going to Kindergarten open house on Friday. I will discuss this with
Cambria's teacher (who I am sure will hate me) and try to find a natural break in between activities and lessons that would be a good exit time.
I feel like my time is precious with my children and someday I will be wondering how the time passed so quickly. I also feel like it is more important for me to be
Cambria's main influence than it is for the school district to be her main influence.
So, I feel very relieved finally arriving at this
decision. I am a little apprehensive to tell her
teacher. I don't really like to be a boat rocker. I am sure there will be talk in the teacher's lounge about me. :)