Wednesday, October 22, 2008

Prop 8 gets scary in CA

I got this forward from a friend and I hope she doesn't mind me sharing it. Prop 8 may only be on the California ballot, but it's outcome will effect all of us no matter what state we live in. If you know people in California, please, please spread the word. Remember that this prop is not about granting rights it is about a title. Gay couples in California already enjoy the same rights that married spouses do. Rights and benefits are not the issue, this is not what prop 8 is about. It is about a title. The title of marriage. Vote "yes" on prop 8 to make a constitutional amendment that marriage is defined as a union between a man and a woman.
A "no" vote will dictate that school curriculum teach students as young as kindergarten that a marriage between a man and a man is the exact same thing as a marriage between a man and a woman. We do not believe in prejudice or mistreatment of those who decide to live an alternative lifestyle. We do believe that gender plays a crucial part in our society and that marriage between a man and a woman is ordained of God. Prop 8 is about religious freedom - the freedom to believe that some things are still sacred.

Protest at the LDS Oakland temple
Dear family and friends,
I had a very disturbing experience yesterday that I would like to share with those of you that live outside of California (or outside of the San Francisco Bay Area). This weekend we have stake conference. Our stake conference always begins with a stake temple session on Friday or Thursday night. Early Friday morning I received a call from the second counselor in our bishopric to let me know that there would be numerous protesters outside the temple, and to remind everyone to stay calm and to drive carefully. The beautiful Oakland Temple is located right across the bay from San Francisco , very close to the city of Berkeley . Apparently the opposition to proposition 8, the amendment that seeks to make marriage in CA between a man and a woman again, has realized the involvement of the church and begun to protest right outside of the temple and harass temple patrons. The fastest way to get to the temple from our house is to take the 680 freeway, but the exit is a bit tricky. The off ramp is extremely short and straight uphill. You then make an almost blind left turn, an immediate right and another left into the parking lot. As we! approached the off ramp, I realized there would be trouble. There was a backup onto the freeway from cars stalled on the off ramp. As we moved forward inches at a time, we realized this was due to a large group of loud protesters who were standing on both sides of the street, yelling, screaming and waving signs. When we got to the top of the off ramp, ready to make our turn, one protester jumped out right in front of our car. It took my husband all his self control to carefully maneuver around him to the left and proceed to the temple. I tried not to listen to all they were shouting at us, but I was shaking as I got to the temple front door. Several of the sisters, especially the ones driving on their own, were crying (which made me snap out of it and go into RS President mode to comfort them). Later, as I was sitting in the perfect quiet of the chapel, I couldn't help but think of Lehi's dream, and the people who mocked the Saints from the big spacious building but "we heeded them not." It was a truly surreal experience, I'd never thought that I would have to go through an angry crowd to get to the temple. As we left late at night, the protesters had dispersed, temple security (who all looked very large and Tongan) stood by the gates. I never saw a single police man. Please pray for those of us in California fighting for prop 8--it's getting kind of scary out here!

Love, Susanne

4 comments:

Leah said...

OMG! That is so sad it actually made me cry. I can't even begin to imagine how that might have felt going into the temple. I really feel sorry for the people who felt the need to protest and pray for them.

I'm so worried about what might happen.

RightHahn said...

I just wanted to clarify that CA schools are already required to teach tolerance of gays and lesbians...and Prop 8 won't change that. THAT will have to be a totally separate issue...

I'm only mentioning this because it's important to have all of your facts straight when you engage in a conversation with someone about this super heated issue. Supporters of gay marriage are ready to pounce on you anytime you misspeak (or just for fun), so I've tried to get all my ducks in a row where this subject is concerned.

It really is a hugely important movement though, as you've mentioned. California in general sets a precedent where marriage is concerned. They were the first state to pass 'no cause' divorce - and look how quickly that has spread throughout our country!

Great post...

Lindsay Hahn (Randy's wife)

Heidi @ Honeybear Lane said...

Wow, an experience like that really makes you think about what side you want to be on when our church starts getting attacked. Fortunately we have so many examples of prophets and saints who have gone before us and suffered so much more...now is the time for our test, I guess. My grandpa said that the decision is about who to put our faith in, the church or the government? It's an easy choice.

Kimberly said...

That is so scary! I hope you don't mind, but I copied the story and put it on my blog. Curtis and I were married in the Oakland Temple so it kind of hit home. My Dad has put thousands of signs around in California, only to have them stolen.